I’m a 43 year old mom of eight (ages 11 to 21), wife of 23 years, sibling of three, and daughter of two. I’ve learned a lot, laughed a lot, and messed up a lot. I’ve read a lot, studied a bit, and tried to listen and learn when I can. I’m not a professional in anything, but have many interests. I play piano, organ, and harp, I cook and bake. I love drinking coffee and visiting friends and babysitting. I have thoughts and experiences about relationships, parenting, and mental health. Some posts might be funny, some are very raw and emotionally difficult. This is out of my comfort zone, and I’m really “putting myself out there” with this blog, feel free to take or leave anything I say, as it applies to your situation.